Dating Tips, Relationship Advice and Sexuality!: Are You Good in Bed?

How to Give Her an Orgasm
by Chelle K

Is it really so hard to give a woman an orgasm? Many say it's difficult but many men also claim that it's very easy… IF you know what to do. So the question is, do you?

Any health, loving and lasting relationship counts a great sex life as a key ingredient. And if you look around you, it's probably not hard to tell which couples are truly happy with each other. These are the couples that still look at each other with lust in their eyes! So what's their secret? It's probably because they are BOTH sexually satisfied in their relationship.

A lot of people know that women don't reach an orgasm as easily or as quickly as men. What many don't realize is that this does nothing but build sexual frustration. And sexual frustration manifests itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one day, you both wake up and realize that you no longer have passion in each other and in your lives.

The good news is it's really not hard at all to make a woman reach an orgasm. But you both have to work at it, which, if you think about it, is part of the fun as well!

How to Make Her 'Come' - A Step-by-Step Guide

You may find this step-by-step guide useful. It is one of the many tools that Gabrielle Moore, an expert on sex education has created. Click here to learn more about other tools by visiting her website...http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=859982

Step 1

Engage in a lot of foreplay! Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her mind and make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand. It's also a great way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man's way of taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about intimacy.

Foreplay can start hours or even days in advance and is really limited only by your sexual imagination. As you keep this 'sexual tension' high, you'll find that it's actually easier to bring her to an orgasm once you do engage in sex.

Step 2

If foreplay is the 'primer', oral sex is the next big step. Many women actually claim that oral sex is the ONLY way they can reach an orgasm so if you both want it to be that way, then don't resist.

When you do go down on her, don't rush it. Show her that you really love her by lavishing her genitals with your undivided attention. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination so to speak.

At the start, just tease and lick softly and lovingly. Once she's focused on that part of her body, increase the tempo. When you notice that her breathing is getting faster and harder or if her legs are becoming taut, move your attention to her clitoris. Tease it by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and then apply more pressure and lick faster.

If she gives any indication at all that she's really turned on, remember this: DON'T change anything. Keep the tempo of what you're doing and she'll reach her orgasm soon enough.

Step 3

If your tongue doesn't bring her to an immediate orgasm, don't despair. Don't forget that your fingers can be put to good use too! Use your index finger to 'trace' the outline of her labia. Be sure to touch her gently. This is guaranteed to electrify her body. After this, place your index and middle finger together and then draw circles around her clitoris.

Pay attention to her body (is it in a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a string?) to gauge just how turned on she is. Don't forget to pay attention to her moans and groans as well.

You can alternate using your tongue and fingers to stimulate her clitoris and just like what's advised above, if she indicates something that's really turning her on, just keep doing it! To learn more about other techniques to stimulate her, click here…http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=859982

Step 4

If clitoral stimulation has not brought on an orgasm yet, then try G-spot stimulation! Assuming that she's already hot and wet, slowly insert your index and middle finger inside her womanhood, palm up. Once inside, position your fingers to the "11 o'clock". Slowly try and locate a small bump or swelling (like an engorged clitoris). Once you find this spot, congratulations… you've located the elusive G-spot!

Step 5

You can stimulate the G-spot in many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or frenzied circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light switch. If you wish, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris while stimulating her G-spot. This will surely give her an orgasm to be remembered! To learn more, click here…http://www.1shoppingcart.com/app/?af=859982

About the Author
Hi, I'm a mother to a 2 year old little boy. I spend a lot of my spare time on the internet searching anything that may help me from cold sores to toilet training, weight loss to making money, so I thought I might share some of my knowledge by writing articles.

The Secrets of Flirting with Men

How to Find the Man of Your Dreams

12 Simple Rules

Love - Dating - Sex Collection by Michael Webb (Oprah's Love Doctor)

Female Masturbation - Listen to Your Body and Explore
By John J. Foley

Female masturbation is shrouded in much more mystery than male masturbation. Because women's genitals are more hidden than men's, and because women are typically taught to be ashamed or embarrassed of them, many women don't learn until they are older that female masturbation is a healthy and sexually liberating part of any woman's sex life.

It is seen as normal that guys masturbate, but for a woman to do it is something different, but in fact I really don't know how to explain it. Female masturbation techniques are quite numerous and much more varied than those of males. For females masturbation is a form of sex with no risk of disease, pregnancy or emotional upset available almost anytime.

For many women, this can be one of the best ways to get to climax, and to experience a very self satisfying orgasm. If you have a better understanding of what your body does when it is stimulated you can appreciate the delicate balance of touch and pressure.

Although there are various female masturbation techniques, most women learn to orgasm by manual stimulation of the clitoris. Take two fingers and explore the parts of their sexual anatomy, paying close attention to what feels good. Even though popular songs, movies, and television shows make mention of female masturbation, or the use of vibrators, it is not a common topic of discussion. Madonna's touching of her genitals on stage was seen more as an obscene gesture than as a public display of a normal sexual act.

A common misconception of women is that because they have a partner, they do not feel they should have to; or if they are single, masturbating would substantiate their single status. If they were not single, they would not have to masturbate.

There seems to be more open discussions and social acceptance of male masturbation because (after all "men think about sex all the time.").But the fact is women also have sexual needs to fulfill, and masturbation is a healthy way to satisfy those needs. Even though women don't necessesarily feel the urgency to masturbate that men do, but then again No two women are alike.

Today we are much freer, but there are still few women who admit to masturbating, though 45% masturbate regularly. Why is masturbation something to feel guilty or embarrassed about? The most sensitive part of most women's bodies is the clitoris. Learning about how it can be used to maximize sexual pleasure is an essential part of masturbation and lovemaking.

It has always been noted by analytic writers from Freud onwards that the attitude women have about masturbation differs from that of men. Freud remarks, for instance, that whereas a man would probably not hesitate to use masturbation when no other means of sexual gratification are available to him, a woman would be less likely to do so. What should be done is to look at what women are actually experiencing, what they enjoy, when they orgasm--and then draw conclusions. In other words, researchers and others (uninformed partners?) must stop telling women what they should feel sexually, and start asking them what they do feel sexually. The secret of female masturbation is simply to get in touch with the pleasure your body can produce. Listen to your body and to explore what you enjoy.

Article Written By J. Foley

J. Foley Has A Site Devoted To This Topic. If You Want To Read More About Female Masturbation, You Can Go Here

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=John_J._Foley

Cunnilingus Orgasms - Give Her Unforgettable Cunnilingus Orgasms With These Tips Now
By Crid Lee

Do you know that cunnilingus is the single best sexual activity that can almost guarantee to give a woman a mind-blowing orgasm? According to research, more than 81% of women regularly achieve orgasms from cunnilingus when compared to only 25% of them from traditional intercourse. Why is this so?

It is because during cunnilingus, you are stimulating her clitoris with your tongue. A woman's clitoris is extremely sensitive as it has more than 8,000 nerve endings. So if you know the right way to perform cunnilingus, you can send her to orgasm heaven.

Now, let me share with you some tips to give her cunnilingus orgasm:

1. Prepare her for cunnilingus. Sometimes, a woman can get pain from cunnilingus when she is not prepared for it. Therefore, you should relax both her mind and body before a cunnilingus session. Take a hot bath together and give her a sensual massage. Be as romantic as possible - women like it.

2. Do not go for the clitoris right from the beginning. This is cunnilingus 101 - do not go for the clitoris too early during a cunnilingus session. When a woman is not turned on enough, stimulating her clitoris may cause her pain instead of pleasure. So make sure that you use your tongue to stimulate other parts before going for the clitoris.

3. Vary your cunnilingus techniques. Sometimes, cunnilingus can become boring if you use the same cunnilingus techniques every time. So remember to change your techniques every now and then to make her guessing on the edge of orgasm.

Do you want to get more cunnilingus techniques and tips to give your partner a more explosive cunnilingus orgasm? Click on the link below to find out now:

How To Give Good Cunnilingus and send your girl to orgasm heaven at CunnilingusOrgasm.com

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Crid_Lee

Too Shy to Shop for "Special" Items in Your Local Store?
Click here to visit Embarrassing Products to Spice-Up Your Love Life and Browse in the Comfort and Safety of Your Own Home!

Tips for Giving Men Great Oral Sex
Author: Suie Roberts

Women's general perception of men and their cocks is, that men are always up for it and you only have to talk about his penis or slightly hint that it might see some action and it gets hard. Therefore, blowjob tips are unnecessary because as long as his cock is in your mouth he's happy - There's no such thing as a crap blowjob.

WRONG!

Admittedly it's not rocket science, but it's not quite brushing your teeth either. With a few tips and pointers, we'll make you a penis sucking genius.

As with any part of the body, once flushed with blood the nerve endings become very sensitive. Of course once the penis is erect, it is full of blood and so it has heightened sensation to touch. Only 2 men in every 1000 are able to suck their own cock, therefore it’s hardly surprising that they are all gagging for their girlfriends to do it for them. The tongue and mouth feel moist, soft and tender to the penis, not to mention it looks really horny and psychologically heightens arousal.

The Myth is that the whole of the males genitals are one huge erogenous zone - This is not true, some areas are particularly more sensitive than others.

The penis head or penis glan is the most sensitive part of the penis, so despite his desire for you to take him deeper its isn't necessary. Just under the skin of the penis glan are numerous excitable nerve endings, guys love having the cock heads licked.

The frenulum on the underside of the penis head is also very sensitive to touch.

The shaft is the least sensitive.

Although not strictly considered part of the equation for blowjobs, there is the testicles, perineum (The small patch of hairless skin between the balls and the anus), and anus; all of which are very sensitive. Stimulating through touch, sucking and licking, one or all of these during a blow job can up grade you from being a good cock sucker to a great cock sucker.

Blowjob Do's
Make lots of yummy moaning noises as if your sucking a bar of chocolate - They love you to love it.

Give him a titwank (Let him slide his cock inside your squashed together breasts) Lick his penis glan as it pops out the top of your boobs.

Do Lick. Long lollypop licks up the shaft of his penis as his excitement builds flicker your tongue around the ridge of his penis (Where the head meets the shaft) and licks his Jap's eye (Urethra opening)

Do keep your teeth behind your lips unless otherwise specifically requested otherwise.

When you take his cock into your mouth make sure there's lots of saliva, wet feels sexy

Cover your teeth with your lips and apply pressure to the shaft as you pump.

Swirl your tongue about! The more energetic your tongue is whilst he's in your mouth the better!

If he's not anal phobic, a well-lubricated finger in the anus stimulating his G-spot creates WOW factor to a climax - you're sure to be amply rewarded for such a grand finally. It also makes men come quicker, (just in case your ever sick of waiting or short of time)

Smearing cream, ice cream syrup or Flavoured Lubricant to his penis spices things up.

Hold eye contact whist you suck him off. This is really sexy. Strategically placed mirrors help with this and also give him alternative views.

If you want to deep throat your lover but want to avoid gagging - Lay on the bed with your head just hanging off the side of the bed and let him thrust into your mouth. Because your head is right back it doesn't make you gag. He will love it because he can visually see you deep throating his cock.

Add some extra eroticism by adding a power play element. Tie him to the bed and take him, tell him how your gonna make his cock burst Or kneel on the floor at his feet and be a submissive cock sucking slave.

Make feel like a porn star. Let him video or take digital photographs of you blowing him.

Wear a strong coloured lipstick (Scarlet red is good) Be sure to leave lips marks on his cock and balls.

Get him to read an erotic story from an Erotic Novel or a wank mag. Make him read aloud.

Let him see that you are playing with yourself as you suck him off.

Blowjob Don'ts
Men like to be teased too, so you shouldn't even touch his cock until it is cock hard. Tease him first, lick up the inside of his thighs, rub yourself up against him, put your boobs in his face, caress your breasts - show him how horny your are.

If it makes you gag don't try to deep throat, it's the head of the penis that is the most sensitive anyway. Put your hand around the base of the penis to control the depth of which he enters your mouth and wank him whilst giving oral, bringing your hand up to meet your lips on their way down.

If you don't like the taste you don't have to swallow. Get him to cum over your face, neck or breasts. This is very visual and can be a lot hornier, although more messy.

Don't centre all of your attentions on his cock. Lick, suck and stroke his anus, perineum and testicles.

Don't worry about making slurping noises - noise is good.

Don't change the rhythm when he's close to coming (unless you want to delay his climax) Keep at the same steady pace and increase the sexy moaning noises.

Don't just do the bobbing up and down thing! Swirl your head as you lips slide up and down his cock - not only doesn't this feel good but it also make you look horny, like a cock sucking expert.

Despite what they think and say men's aims are pretty lousy. Don't get sperm in your eyes. It doesn't sting but it does make your eyes very blood shot for around 24 hours.

Penis Advantage - 'Male Enhancement' Advice & Techniques

How to Seduce Women

Make Women Laugh & Fall in Love

500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets!

Sexual Intercourse Makes the Skin Beautiful
Author: Boris Tomson

Sexual Intercourse is not just the insertion of a man's erect penis into a women's vagina. It is more than this mere definition. If not for pleasure, there are many benefits of having sexual intercourse which I will like to elucidate in this special article. Sexual intercourse is really an act that everybody ought to enjoy. Below are the numerous benefits of having sexual intercourse with your sex partner.

Sexual intercourse makes the skin beautiful: It has been observed that when a woman engages in sexual intercourse, it makes the skin of the woman beautiful. What is the scientific basis for this? When a woman makes love, her body produces more estrogen. Estrogen is a female sex hormone. Estrogen helps to keep the body smooth. In addition to this, the sweat produced makes the skin to shine.

Having sex relives pain: Do you know that sex is a natural analgesic. Sex can be used to relieve some kind of aches and pain like headaches. Perhaps, it will be wise to offer your sexual partner with some dose of sexual relationship when he or she complains of headache. http://howtomake-love.blogspot.com

Sex is a Tranquilizer: Sex is a good tranquilizer. A tranquilizer is a drug that promotes tranquility by calming, soothing, quieting, or pacifying with minimal sedating or depressant effects. When you are upset, depressed, and lonely or under stress, sex can be your “drug of choice’.

Sex Improves Blood Circulation: When one gets sexually aroused, the heart rate increases. This increase in heart rate improves the circulation of blood to different parts of the body.

Sex is a Nice Exercise: Sex is a nice and safe exercise, which an individual can do to stay healthy. It also helps to burn excess calories of fats that accumulate in our body, especially after having a delicious meal.

Enjoy it.

Visit my Sex Education Blog to learn more.

http://howtomake-love.blogspot.com

You can also read more Fantastic Sex Articles at my Sex Blog

Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/sexuality-articles/sexual-intercourse-makes-the-skin-beautiful-516146.html

About the Author:
Woman Making Love Resources of how to woman make love. Find making love opportunities. Update of latest free cards,books,gifts e-books,tools released by ...love http://loveheartsgirls.blogspot.com

Choosing an Online Dating Service
by Noreen Ruth

If you're new to online dating, just the vast number of sites available for you to choose from can be daunting. To make the process easier the first and probably most important decision to make is to define exactly what you're looking to get out of a dating service. Are you looking for a lifelong relationship, a friend to share common interests, a sexual encounter or a chat buddy?

The top dating services. such as Yahoo! Personals, eHarmony and Match.com focus on one type of relationship. On these sites you know upfront what the other members are looking for when you make contact. If you are not exactly sure about your specific intentions, check out the sites that offer more than one type of relationship within the same site. Be sure you look for one that has the different communities separated so that you don't have to guess what the intentions of the poster may be.

Know Who You Want to Meet
Dating services will bring positive results only when you're able to see a mental picture of the person you would want to meet and find words to describe him or her in details that convey the traits that are most important to you. Consider not only the physical attributes of the person but their personality, lifestyle, hobbies, religious and political preferences. If there is one trait that is a 'must-have', consider searching for a dating service that specializes in bringing together people who share that common interest. The specialty dating services you can visit are as diverse as your imagination -- biker babes, vegans, pet-lovers, pagan, etc.

Site Features Make the Process Easier
Who has time to click through thousands of profiles to find the 'perfect' match? The tools that are offered on a site can make your search faster, more relevant and ultimately more fun. Matchmaking features offer you a way to 'fine-tune' your search so that you're not wading through profiles that are far from the results you're looking for. Some sites run your search on a regular basis automatically and send new prospects that meet your profile to your email. On a general dating site, you may receive several profiles each day. If, however, you opt to use a more 'serious' service (designed for people looking for a marriage partner), you may receive one or two matches a month.

Take Personality Tests As a way to help their clients learn about themselves and their potential partners, personality tests are offered. The more established sites often offer more insightful and detailed tests. The results of these tests, which are free with your membership, help to define compatible members. One thing to consider is whether the results are a good reflection of you, if so it stands to reason that the potential matches on the site will be reflecting their true nature, as well.

Check Out the Communications
Communication is the key to a great relationship. When choosing a dating service, consider what communication opportunities are included. If you're just trying out a service, you will probably be given limited ability to communicate (often limited to flirty icons and preset messages) with prospective dates to determine whether you want to continue at the next level which would require a subscription to the service. Once you subscribe, communication between members is usually with an on-site email or instant messaging. Typically, the more you pay for a service the more options will be available to you.

Entertainment Options If you're not looking for a serious relationship, there's still a place for you on many dating service websites. More and more sites are now offering chat rooms and forums to make friends. Entertainment features may also include quizzes, polls, contests, articles and newsletters.

Using the Service When Out of the Country
Established online dating services have extended their services into other countries around the world. You can connect in 27 different countries on Match.com; Yahoo! Personals has a new Canadian service. If you find yourself in another country, this service is a good way to chat in your native language.

Cost and Payment Options First look for free trials and try out all the features before committing to a service. The cost of using an online dating service is typically between $20 and $25 a month. With the cost pretty standard across the board, the value of your subscription is in the services offered that you will actually use. If you sign up for a service and don't take advantage of the benefits they offer, you're wasting your money. Look for discounts for signing up for several months or for joining with a friend. Some services accept money orders or checks, but most prefer credit or debit card payments.

More Resources
Be sure to explore the Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ) section of the service you're considering. Visit the site and explore the options available. Don't stick around too long, if you aren't enjoying the experience. Check out a great dating service review site, http://www.dateshowcase.com - Compare Best Internet Dating Sites.

About the Author
Whether you're experienced with online dating-- or new to the internet singles scene, find everything you need to choose the best online dating services at www.dateshowcase.com.

Click on Banner to visit their site.